One was for freedom that gripped every woman to no longer be in bondage and domination by men, like in the era of RA Kartini first. But free is not enough. Women also have to improve physical and mental endurance for not less powerful than men.
1. How busy you are at home or at work, do not forget to treat yourself to reward yourself. Do not miss the regular visits to the salon for just creambath, marry pedi or facial. Make yourself a special treat by good assets you have. In this way, the mood is always awake and you're ready to penetrate the other challenges that await!
2. Whatever choices you face, you-yes, only you-are entitled to decide. Included also in terms of romance. If age is not young anymore but you still feel at home alone, do not ignore pressure from anywhere. If family urge you to stay married, but you do not want, do not do. Marriage is one way to achieve happiness. But if done with a forced, what would you be happy? So whatever the problem, you have the right to choose.
3. You still remember, what makes Kartini revolt? In his day, few indigenous women are allowed to enjoy school. The rest, shall gardening, farming, or busy in the kitchen. Women lag behind men. When Kartini wanted equality and justice, that's when came the emancipation of women.
Thus, emancipation does not mean to compete with men to reverse domination. Emancipation means to equalize and balance the status of the women and men.
4. For those of you a career woman or a businessman, what are you must have to strengthen your career? Hard work, of course. Prayer, for sure. Perseverance and patience, too uncertain. But do not forget one thing that is not less important, namely friendship and networking.
The more friends you have, the more easily you develop your business. Bids collaboration or the opportunity to work in a better place you too would easily accept. So do not waste your time with silence. Nets as many friends and enjoy the results.
5. You are branded as "grumpy mama" or "bitchy wife"? Try not to take a job in the office into the home. If the workload piling up, stress increases, the mood would be unpalatable. As a result, children and husband will be subject to spray all day.
Similarly, if you fight with your partner. Do not involve others in your problem, such as a fight in front of children. Make them your own-and middle-happy though covered with a myriad of problems. Appreciate yourself by cheering your life.
6. Whatever happens, do not ever lie to your spouse and children. If you must leave your toddler to work, say you will go to work. Avoid to say, "Mama want to go to market" or "Mama want to buy a toy for you". Believe it or not, your child will be afraid to leave the market because that makes you pasarlah
leaving every day. In contrast to the second reason, your child will collect the toys that were promised as soon as you come home.
7. This one, being the most important thing to be a super woman. Always look beautiful and vibrant every day. This means, get rid of a collection of t-shirt blouse or loose you. A little makeup makeup, a spray of perfume, and sweet smile that can make the couple fall in love every day.
You're beautiful inside out, that's why he chose you.
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