"When has a girlfriend?", "When married?" uh listen to all these same questions to make you bored and tired, and finally you decide to going together with a new figure that you know without thinking. Well do you act that?
Of course not! Falling in love can never be forced, love comes at a special time, not forced. Maybe you feel bored with the questions your friends or family who want you to immediately have a boyfriend, or maybe they are worried that you liked the same sex. Yes, concerns and questions are indeed inevitable, but that does not mean you force yourself to fall in love right?
See some reason did not exactly fall in love with the following question:
Tired Alone
Bored with the status of single, bored tempted by friends, and bored with all the gossip around, you finally decide to have a girlfriend in a short time.
And the results are you happy? 90% do not!
From the beginning of love can never be imposed, if the reason you have a boyfriend just because of boredom, well might your relationship only lasted a week or two weeks. Imagine all the bad effects to your image, right?
Broken-hearted
Your broken-hearted because of someone else, then decided to accept an invitation for someone to dating. An outlet! that's the right word for you. Surely you can not concentrate with existing relationships. You are actually fun to make your ex jealous, and you're in the process of making someone upset.
All your friend has a girlfriend
So does that mean you also have to have a boyfriend?
They may have met with an appropriate figure, and you feel have not met someone who makes you comfortable. Give a little time for yourself to find the figure of the right man. Without the rush your relationship will be better. Let it flow like water.
You are just amazed and wanted to use material that is owned
He has a luxury car, has five companies, had money and power, so eventually you want to date her. Hmmmm ... This is the worst excuse ever for a lover.
Content is not everything, and the material can not buy love. How could you think such a low value you love with the material alone?
Vengeance
The reason for this is the most childish reason. You fall in love and dating someone to vent your emotions and revenge to him.
The most cruel and unforgivable.
Competition
You bet with your friends for dating and find love with someone. Hmmm .... c'mon this is not his time toying with people's feelings. Grew up girls! You are supposed to think and act properly adult figure who can be responsible with his attitude.
Before you decide to have a commitment with someone, think carefully whether that relationship you want? Are you ready to have a relationship? And whether it is your deepest feelings?
If you do not want to hurt and disappointed because of love, do not be toying with the feelings of others and do not play around with love!
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6 Reasons Not Just Fall In Love
Written By TomieDLuffy on Minggu, 29 Mei 2011 | 10.18
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